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What to Read; 7 Books for Kids with ADHD

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In my work with kids who have the traits of Attention Hyperactivity Deficit Disorder (ADHD), many families struggle with how to discuss the symptoms with their kids.  Bibliotherapy is a technique I often use with kids in my practice. But reading books for kids with ADHD can easily done with parents at home or with teachers at school. Here is a round-up of recommended books for kids with ADHD that depict various traits of impulsivity, inattention, hyperactivity, difficulty concentrating and blurting out.  For other ideas for books, you can check out my post about books about anxiety for elementary school kids and for teens as well as books that teach empathy. And you can head over to my Pinterest page for more possibilities of books/workbooks for kids and teens on various topics.

Here are the recommendations of books for kids with ADHD in no particular order:

 

My Warp Speed Mind, Donalisa Helsley (K-3rd grade)

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Written by a clinical social worker, it is one of the few books that address the thoughts at “warp speed” in a kid with ADHD.  Offers tools to deal with impulsivity and how to slow down.

 

My Mouth is Volcano, Julia Cook (2nd-4th grade)

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One of my personal favorites about a boy named Louis, who feels the need to blurt out his thoughts at any time. An entertaining read with a helpful technique for kids to curb this not-so-uncommon behavior.

 

What Were You Thinking? Bryan Smith (2nd-4th grade)

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A great read about a third-grader Braden, whose impulsivity leads to poor choices.  Whether Braden makes jokes in class at the wrong time or blurts something out and hurts his classmate’s feelings, kids with ADHD will relate to this story.

 

Terrific Teddy’s Excessive Energy Jim Forgan (K-2nd)

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This is an ideal choice for a parent/guardian who is trying to explain ADHD to a child who has been recently diagnosed.  It has two optional endings for parents who want to use the terms ADHD or speak generally about traits such as excessive energy.

 

Pay Attention Emily Brown, Linda Brown (PreK-1st grade)

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A wonderfully written picture book about a mom who in a gentle way, is trying to get her daughter to pay attention.  Written in rhyme, it’s catchy prose captures entertains young readers who struggle with inattentiveness.

 

Hank Zipzer series, Henry Winkler (3rd-5th grade)

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A chapter book series as well as a TV show by Henry Winkler (yes parents, The Fonz), detailing the life of Hank who has dyslexia but shares a lot of qualities of ADHD.  Engaging plots, kids are drawn into Hank’s poor decision-making schemes and how he manages to deal with his choices.

 

Joey Pigza Swallowed the Key, Jack Ganza, (5th grade and up)

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If you are looking for a series of books for kids with ADHD, this is it. Swallowed The Key is an entertaining book in how he deals with the challenges of his diagnosis.  A boy who felt he could identify with Joey in many ways, particularly the impulsive choices and how it impacted his life at school recommended this book to me.

 

Julie Safranski, LCSW is a Chicago psychotherapist.  She enjoys working with kids with ADHD and their families to help them see their strengths and manage their challenges.  She can be reached at js@juliesafranski.com.

Teaching empathy to kids; 8 books to read

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Recently, I have gotten some requests about how parents and/or educators can be teaching empathy to kids.  Books are great way to have kids explore other people’s perspectives and develop empathy towards others who may be different from us.  So here are 8 suggestions of various children’s books addressing themes of empathy and kindness (in no particular order).  For more possibilities of books/workbooks for kids and teens on various topics you can head over to my Pinterest page.  Or for other recommendations for books about anxiety, you can check out my post for elementary school kids and for teens.

 

 

Last Stop on Market Street,  Matt de le Pena  (4-7 yo)

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I absolutely love this book for both the wonderful text and illustrations depicting the diversity of life’s circumstances.   It chronicles the bus ride of CJ and his Nana and the conversation that ensues.  CJ asks his grandmother many questions about why he doesn’t have the same things as the other kids.  She responds in a way that makes him look at his life differently with gratitude even at the end even when their trip ends at a soup kitchen.  A must read!

 

Ivan: The Remarkable True Story of the Shopping Mall Gorilla,  Katherine Applegate. (5-8yo)    

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Based on a true story, this picture book details the life of a gorilla who gets taken from  his family as a baby in the jungle in Congo to grow up in a shopping mall in the Unites States for entertainment. With pressure from the community, he eventually get transfers to a zoo.  A terrific way to promote empathy for other living creatures besides humans.

 

Those Shoes, Maribeth Boelts  (5-8yo)

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A book about an important topic for most young boys; the social status of what shoes they wear.  Jeremy wants shoes that they can’t afford which his grandma tells him they are a want not a need.  There’s an interesting ending of how Jeremy demonstrates empathy after getting free shoes from the school counselor.  

 

Big Nate Lives it Up: Big Nate, Book 7,  Lincoln Peirce (8 yo+)

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The main character who usually struggles with his interpersonal skills focuses in this book on trying to be more kind to his classmates. There is a new student in the class and Nate works hard to be empathetic.  Relatable to all kids, an enjoyable read for your chapter book readers.

 

Ordinary Mary’s Extraordinary Deed, Emily Pearson  (3-7yo)

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A story about a girl who picks blueberries for a neighbor.  Then the neighbor makes muffins with the blueberries and shares them with 5 people.  And a chain of kind deeds ensues. A great way to demonstrate to young kids how their one small action can affect a lot of people in a positive way.

 

Just My Luck , Cammie McGovern (8 yo +)

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Benny, a fourth-grader is dealing with a lot in his life.  His father just got into an accident, was in the hospital and they are not sure about his recovery.  His best friend moved away and he is struggling to make new friends.  One of his older brothers has autism and he says things out loud that he probably shouldn’t.  Kids will find Benny likable and will enjoy reading about how he deals with his issues in a kind and empathetic way.

 

Enemy Pie,  Derrick Munson (5-8 yo)

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The summer was going well until Jeremy Ross moved in down the street. Jeremy made fun of people and excluded them from his party.  The only way the boy could beat Jeremy Ross is through the dad’s enemy pie in which they had to work together to do.   An fun take on how sometimes first judgments aren’t always correct and kindness goes a long way.

 

What if Everybody Did That?, Ellen Javernick (3-7yo)

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So what would happen if everyone littered, splashed at the pool or fed animals at the zoo?  This is a great tale for young readers that depicts the consequences of how our behavior affects others.

 

Julie Safranski, LCSW is a Chicago psychotherapist in private practice.  She has a passion for working with kids and their families. She can be contacted at js@juliesafranski.com.

 

Dealing with Anxiety; 10 Suggestions of Children’s Books

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“What’s a good book I can read to my son/daughter about ……”

 

I often get asked to recommend books particularly for children and teenagers on various topics.   So I decided to provide a list of 10 suggestions of various children’s books dealing with anxiety (in no particular order).  This month I am focusing on books for kids in pre-school and elementary school.  I hope to make this a regular series and will do another post for pre-teen and teenagers dealing with anxiety.   For more possibilities of books/workbooks for kids on various topics you can head over to my Pinterest page.

 

 

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I am Too Absolutely Small for School Lauren Child (Grades PreK-K)       

A book from the well-known series about Lola and her older brother, Charlie who is always trying to help his quirky sister.  This one is about going to kindergarten and Charlie tries to get Lola to understand why it’s so important to go to school even though she gives her brother many (common) excuses of why she can’t go.  Great multi-media artwork that kids always enjoy.  

 

 

 

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Jake Starts School— Michael Wright  (Gr. Pre-K-1)

A lot of kids when being dropped off on the first day of school, tell their parents they don’t want them to go (including mine).  And this story depicts an over-the-top version of what would happen if parents were to stay with their son/daughter in class.  This is bound to crack some smiles for both kids and parents.

 

 

 

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The Kissing Hand –Audrey Penn  (Gr. PreK-K )

This is one of the sweetest books about how to manage your feelings about going to school for the first time and being separated from family. This is a classic and if you haven’t read it yet, once you do you will know why.

 

 

 

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What to Do if you Worry Too Much; A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Anxiety     —Dawn Huebner PhD  (Gr. 2-5)

More of workbook than a story, this book written by a psychologist, helps reassure kids that they are not alone in dealing with their anxiety.  Provides kid-friendly concepts and illustrations along with strategies.  A great tool that parents can do together with their child  to reinforce concepts learned throughout the book or in between therapy sessions.

 

 

 

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Wilma Jean the Worry Machine  Julia Cook (Gr. 2-5 ) 

Poor Wilma Jean–she cannot help herself from  saying “What if?”  The author provides great strategies of how to deal with different types of worries (ones you can control vs not control).  Kids love her books with the colorful, relatable characters.   

 

 

 

 

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Wemberley Worried — Kevin Henkes (Gr. PreK-K)   

Wemberley worries about everything in her life including going to school until she meets a friend just like her.   Young kids who struggle with generalized anxiety will relate to all of her concerns and find comfort that they are not the only one who has worries.

 

 

 

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When My Worries Get Too Big! A Relaxation Book for Children who Live with Anxiety Kari Dunn Buron   (Gr. 1-5)

A great book for those kids who have intense emotions regarding anxiety including those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), ADHD etc.  It gives specific calming strategies and simple tools to help families have a way to communicate about their child’ s anxiety.  

 

 

 

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Testing Miss MalarkeyJudy Finchler   (Gr. 2-5)  

A humorous tale for those kids who are worrying about standardized tests (that happen oh-so-often these days!).  Although it doesn’t give specific strategies, it tries to give the perspective that testing isn’t about the student’s scores but about measuring up the school staff.

 

 

 

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A Bad Case of the StripesDavid Shannon  (Gr. 1-4)

A fantastic read about being yourself and what happens if you try to be what others want you to be.   The underlying theme focuses on anxiety, which illustrates the the consequences of not being yourself and a good read for those kids who struggle with some social anxiety.

 

 

 

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Up and Down the Worry Hill; A Children’s Book about Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and it’s Treatment —Aureen Pinto Wagner PhD (Gr. 1-4)

Children who have OCD will see themselves in the main character, Casey who struggles with getting through his day-to-day routine.  There is  a parent companion book that some also might find it helpful in supporting their child.

 

Julie Safranski, LCSW is a Chicago psychotherapist in private practice.  She can be contacted at js@juliesafranski.com.